Join Us Free For The Betrayal Healing Conference and and make huge progress in healing after betrayal.

Please enter your name.
Please enter a valid email address.
Something went wrong. Please check your entries and try again.

January 22-26, 2024

Receive guidance from 30 experts on how to heal from sexual betrayal so you can get off the emotional rollercoaster, gain confidence, and figure out your next steps during this free online event.

Watch this short video to learn more

Play Video

Shattered. Vulnerable. Confused.

Those are just a few of the words that describe what it feels like to be betrayed by your partner.


(Some other words that come to mind: sad, angry, livid…)

And it’s hard to know where to turn, who to talk to, and what to do, no matter when the betrayal happened.

But what if you:

Understood the path to healing so you knew exactly what steps to take next (and when you’re about to make a wrong turn)

Had guideposts that you could rely on to help you make decisions like if you should stay or go, when it was safe to be intimate, and when it makes sense to forgive

Felt free of the insecurities that are suffocating you

Felt deep down that his betrayal is NEVER your fault (and I mean never)

Could get unstuck and move forward with clarity and wholeness

Well, all this is possible…

The Betrayal Healing Conference helps you navigate healing after sexual betrayal so you can get off the emotional rollercoaster, gain confidence, and figure out your next steps.

30 experts over 5 days will guide you towards healing, empowerment, and freedom.

Maybe right now you’re...

  • Convinced there’s no way to get to the other side of betrayal
  • Unsure if you’re moving forward or backward and if you’re even on the right path
  • Being told you should just forgive and forget (but deep down you know this isn’t the answer)
  • Struggling with feeling like this is all your fault (by the way, it never is)
  • Looking OK on the outside because you’ve pushed your feelings down — maybe for years — but below the surface, you’re not alright and don’t know if you can ever trust again

Wherever you’re at — whether you just found out your husband cheated or it’s been years since it all blew up in your face — It’s essential for you to understand the healing journey.

Because one thing I can tell you from certainty is that this wound doesn’t heal by itself.

And when you shove your emotions down, the problem doesn’t ever go away. It patiently waits and festers under the surface until you’re ready to deal with it.

You are not alone! Let us help you face this head-on so you can get off the emotional rollercoaster that’s whipping you up, down, and sideways and get you on the path to healing!

Now, you might be wondering who exactly is the person behind this online event…

Hi! I’m Tammy Gustafson.

I’m a betrayal trauma coach, writer, and speaker. I’m also a licensed professional counselor specializing in trauma and PTSD for 15 years.


As both a counselor that's helped hundreds of women and as someone who’s healed from betrayal, finding your way back to freedom and peace is possible.


(Not easy — but possible.)


It’s why I wanted to do this free event. Because in order to navigate the mess of betrayal, it is helpful to know the path to healing.


And that’s exactly what my guest experts and I will show you how to do.

Working with Tammy around betrayal trauma has been a massive part of my healing journey. 

“Her expertise, along with her wisdom and life experience, offer a safe place to share and know she cares as she coaches you through invaluable steps towards healing.”

 - KR

Betrayal Healing Conference Sponsors:

Here are all the details you need to know about the Betrayal Healing Conference…


The Betrayal Healing Conference will run from January 22-26, 2024.



Online. You will receive a link to access the presentations so you can tune in from anywhere with internet access. 



Each interview will be under an hour, with the goal of providing practical steps you can take on the topic. The presentations will be available for 24 hours, so you can watch them at your convenience.



You’ll also have access to a private Facebook group for the conference where we’ll be connecting before the conference starts and working together to get off the emotional rollercoaster, gain confidence, and figure out your next steps once it kicks off.



After registering, you can also upgrade to gain access to the All-Access Pass.

That gives you...


  • Unlimited access to presentations for one year
  • Bonuses from speakers to help you go deeper 
  • Incredible discounts on workshops and intensives
  • and much more!

You won't want to miss it!

The Betrayal Healing Conference is different...

Maybe you’ve already done marriage therapy, wasting tons of time and money with counselors, coaches, and/or pastors who’ve caused more harm than good. 

And maybe the idea of coming to a conference like this feels vulnerable because you’ve gotten advice that’s been at the very least hurtful — and in the worst case — harmful.



That’s why I created this conference. I wanted to introduce you to…


  • 30 speakers who are experts and pioneers in the area of betrayal healing
  • Compassionate care by people who understand the nuances of betrayal
  • Guidance and tools that’ll give you the strength and power to move forward (even if you feel like you’re going crazy or have a partner or ex-husband who’s gaslighting you)
  • Knowledge so you can separate the good “advice” from the well-intentioned, but not-so-helpful (or even harmful) advice typically being pushed on women


Here’s what you’re NOT going to get during this 5-day event:


  • Sessions on how your actions contributed to the affair (his betrayal is NEVER your fault!)
  • Lectures on how shouldn't be angry or hold any resentment towards your husband
  • Advice saying you just need to have sex with him more
  • Questions like “why aren’t you over this already?”
  • Hints that you need to “focus on communication”


This conference is all about you and your healing! 

The Speakers

Now, let me introduce you to the amazing line-up of experts you’ll be hearing from at the Betrayal Healing Conference. 


Andrea Rogers
MS, BCC, APSATS Certified Partner Coach

What I Didn't Know: Reflections From 10 Years of Recovery

Dr. Barbara Steffens
Board Certified Coach, CPC, CCPS

Institutional Betrayal: When Helpers Add to Our Hurt

Cat Etherington
Betrayal Trauma Therapist and Coach

Grief and mourning: How Not to Get Stuck

Dan Drake

Therapeutic Separations: How to Build Individual and Relational Safety Through Healthy Distance

Debbie Laaser

The Truth, the Whole Truth, and Nothing but the Truth: Full Disclosure for Couples Navigating Relational Betrayal

Drew Boa

Healing the Inner Child - For Men

Dr. Eddie Capparucci

Managing Anxiety Helps Heal This Mess

Elisabeth Kristof
Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coach

Betrayal and Nervous System Health

Geoff Steurer
What Do I Do With All This Pain?
Dr. Jake Porter

Returning to You: Rediscovering the True Self After Betrayal

Dr Janice Caudill

What Do You Get When You Mix Sex Addition and Intimacy Anorexia? Married and Alone: A Sexually Betrayed, Intimacy Deprived Partner

Jenn Howie
Betrayal Recovery Coach

Reclaiming Body Image After Betrayal

Jenna Riemersma

Move Toward with Jenna Riemersma

Joshua Broome

Is Porn Really That Bad:

The Truth From a Former Porn Star

Julianne Cusick

Devastated but not Destroyed

KayLee Dunn
LCSW, Betrayal Navigation Coach

From Hurt to Heroine: Heal From Betrayal With NeuroIntuitive Boundaries

Dr. Kenneth M. Adams
PhD, Licensed Clinical Psychologist, CSAT-S

When He is Married to Mom: How to Navigate the Confusion when He is Both Sex Addict and Enmeshed with His Mother

Melanie Johnson
CDFA®, National Director of Second Saturday Divorce Workshops

Financial Empowerment: Navigating the Monetary Maze of Betrayal and Divorce

Marsha Means

Why His Empathy is a Key to Healing

Melody Lovvorn
Betrayal Coach

Setting New Goals & Dreams: Fostering a Positive Outlook Beyond Trauma

Michael John Cusick

From Barriers To Bridges: Understanding Your Brokenness

Michelle Mays

Healing the Sexual Injury at the Heart of Betrayal

Monifa Ellis-Addie

The Narcissist Sex Addict and You

Nathaniel Gustafson

 It Might Be Right But Is It Right Right Now? Getting Ahead of the Healing Process


Knowing His "Why" For Her Safety

Dr. Rob Weiss
PhD, LCSW, CSAT, Author, Clinical Educator, Addiction Specialist

All About Prodependence: Beyond the Shame of Codependency

_Betrayal Healing _ Speaker Graphic 2024
Rick Reynolds
Founder and President of Affair Recovery

Healing Intrusive Memories

Sarah Morales
CPC, CRC, APSATS-CPC, Gaslighting Expert & Thought Leader

Finding Your Way Back to You - The Role Gaslighting Plays in Loss of Self

Stacey Smith (Sadler)
LPC CCPS CSAT Candidate EMDR Certified Chief Clinical Officer

When God Lets you Down - Healing Spiritual Trauma

Stephen Cabler
Senior Polygraph Examiner

Polygraphs 101

Tammy Gustafson

Taming Triggers

Wendell Moss

The Trauma of Betrayal

As you can see by that incredible lineup, you are NOT going to want to miss this conference!

Why is Understanding the Path to Healing So Important?

Well, a couple of different reasons.

Often, if you’re feeling stuck, it’s because you are unknowingly jumping to different phases of the healing journey.

For example, you could be focusing on forgiveness when you should be focusing on anger — and this shuts down the whole process.


The truth is that the healing process is counter-intuitive, disorienting, and overwhelming.

But when you understand the phases, you know what you need to focus on *right now* and let the other stuff go. It grounds you and gives you a foundation to build on. 


That’s why I want to invite you to join me on January 22nd-26th so you can get clear on where you’re at and expert advice on how to get where you want to go.


Get your free ticket

...to get off the emotional rollercoaster, gain confidence, 

and figure out your next steps.